Relationships & Communication: Memory Wars Part 2
by Dr. Coach Love
Continuing… In relationships, partners often have dissimilar memories. Nevertheless, remembering is a key element for relationship development and maintenance. Recalling (or forgetting) information shapes your relationship. Lasting intimate connections are built on shared memories. Forgetfulness is seldom, if ever, a relationship asset. (Even forgetting the “bad” moments can contribute to a lack of growth in the relationship.)
Consider how the following items influences our relationships when they are remembered compared to when one or both partners forget.
1. important dates
2. shared experiences
3. agreements
4. partner preferences
5. likes and dislikes
6. conversations
7. requests
Think how memories shared with your partner about the above contribute to your relationship. Recall some specifics and discuss with him or her. Follow-up with Part 3 for more ideas.
That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
Regards,
Dr. Coach Love
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