Anal Cleaner and Sloppy Husband- Part 2
by Dr. Coach Love
Continuing from Part 1…
Family backgrounds and customs, of course, generally play a huge role in
the origin of housecleaning wars. Nevertheless, it is important that you improve your relationship and avoid being stalled, detained, or derailed at the crossroads
of this issue.
Remember when you:
èMake housecleaning into a fight or a win-lose argument—
emotions are wounded and it is not resolvable.
èStop judging each other’s cleaning preferences as right
and wrong—the power struggle ends.
èDefuse the emotional charge this subject has ignited or rekindled—
you become free to develop a functional plan.
èStop debating—you have more time for cleaning. YIPPEE!!!
That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
Regards,
Dr. Coach Love
MORE INFO LINKS: Lists- Housecleaning: 7 Ways to Divide;
Posts- Pt1 4-10-08;
Quizzes- Housecleaning Wars Quiz
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